1. "I'm not looking for anything serious."
Why?
- This phrase can scare off people who are looking for a long-term relationship.
- It may give the impression that you are not ready for serious commitment.
- She may seem insincere, because most people on a dating site still want to find love.
Example:
Instead of: "I'm not looking for anything serious."
Tell: "I am open to meeting new people and will be happy to see what comes of it."
2. "I'm too busy for a relationship."
Why?
- This phrase may seem like you are not interested in anyone but yourself.
- It can discourage people who want to find a partner to spend time with.
- It can give the impression that you don't know how to prioritize.
Example:
Instead of: "I'm too busy for a relationship."
Tell: "I value my time, but I also value communication with interesting people. If you are looking for a partner who will not require much attention, then I may be right for you."
3. "My ex was..."
Why?
- You shouldn't talk about your exes on a dating site.
- It may seem like you haven't fallen out of love with them yet.
- This can create a negative atmosphere and scare off potential partners.
Example:
Instead of: "My ex was..."
Tell: "I am looking for a person with whom I can build a strong and healthy relationship."
4. "I am looking for the ideal partner."
Why?
- There are no ideal people.
- Therefore, this phrase may seem unrealistic.
- It can scare off people who don't consider themselves perfect.
Example:
Instead of: "I'm looking for the perfect partner."
Tell: "I'm looking for a person who will suit me in character, interests and values."
5. "I don't like..."
Why?
- You shouldn't talk about what you don't like on a dating site.
- This can create a negative atmosphere.
- This can turn off people who may have similar interests to you.
Example:
Instead of: "I don't like..."
Tell: "I love…"
6. "I am very smart/beautiful..."
Why?
- You shouldn't brag about your achievements on a dating site.
- This may seem arrogant.
- This can turn off people who don't consider themselves as smart/beautiful/successful.
Example:
Instead of: "I am very smart/beautiful..."
Tell: "I'm proud of my achievements, but I also value humility."
7. “I have a lot of money…”
Why?
- You shouldn't talk about your wealth on a dating site.
- This may seem like you are only looking for a selfish partner.
- This can scare away people who are not interested in your money.
Example:
Instead of: "I have a lot of money..."
Tell: "I value financial independence, but I also value genuine relationships."
8. “I want children/I don’t want children…”
Why?
- You shouldn't talk about your plans for the future on the first date.
- This may seem too pushy.
- This can scare off people who don't have the same plans as you.
Example:
Instead of: "I want children/I don't want children..."
Tell: "I'm open to discussing this topic, but I think we need to get to know each other better first."
9. "Send me your photo..."
Why?
- You should not ask for photographs immediately after meeting.
- This may seem too intrusive.
- This can scare away people who are not ready to share their photos with strangers.
Example:
Instead of: "Send me your photo..."
Tell: "It would be interesting to see your photo, but I don't insist."
10. “I’m looking for a sponsor…”
Why?
- The dating site is not intended for finding sponsors.
- This can scare off people who are looking for a serious relationship.
- This can create a negative atmosphere and ruin your reputation.
Example:
Instead of: "I'm looking for a sponsor..."
Tell: "I am looking for a person with whom I can build a strong and healthy relationship."
I hope these tips help you write an attractive profile and find love on a dating site!